Pipping hot tea and romance: What makes reality T.V. so enjoyable

From relationship troubles to a world of luxury, “trash T.V.” offers something for everyone

Drama between international couples is at the heart of 90 Day Fiance. (Suneet Gill)

Drama between international couples is at the heart of 90 Day Fiance. (Suneet Gill)

Whether you’re a fan of Love Island USA or the entertaining drama that unfolds on the luxury yachts in Below Deck, reality television is here to stay.

Reality T.V. has become the backbone of pop culture because of its scandalous drama, unexpected turns, and bingeworthy moments.

Yet again, the most recent season of Love Island USA has taken over group chats, trending hashtags, and explore pages. Even people who haven’t seen the entire show know what’s happening on the island — they know who was kicked out of the villa, who unexpectedly dated at the fire pit, and which islander is causing chaos.

Like it or not, reality T.V. continues to dominate screens and stir up conversations.

Critics frequently view reality shows as senseless drama, calling them “trash T.V.” Let’s face it, though, a lot of us secretly enjoy watching them.

I mean, why not? After a long day of work, school, or studying, there’s a strangely pleasant feeling that comes from being lost in someone else’s mess. Ironically, reality T.V. provides a break from reality.

Case in point, 90 Day Fiance. The program follows international couples as they try to maintain their relationship while facing a looming deadline to their U.S.-issued K-1 visa, which requires them to get married within — you guessed it — 90 days.

Long-distance love, cultural conflicts, language barriers, envious ex-partners, doubtful in-laws, and a ton of emotional baggage are all front and centre for viewers. It’s dramatic, awkward, and totally unreasonable — the three ingredients for a truly bingeworthy show.

You start only as an observer and eventually become emotionally attached. Suddenly, you’re asking questions of certain couples, cheering for others, and yelling at the screen when clear warning signs are disregarded. We can’t peel our eyes away. It’s reality T.V. at its most embarrassing.

Then, there’s the Real Housewives saga, which offers a fascinating look into the glamourous lives of the wealthy women in various cities and states. From the historic charm of Maryland to the sun-soaked mansions of Beverly Hills, the program’s various iterations offer a special blend of friendships, serious drama, and memorable one-liners that captivate audiences.

Real Housewives is more than just the drama, with its lavish fashion, travel, and bold business initiatives, all of which are set against the backdrop of dramatic dinner parties and heated arguments that fans adore discussing.

Expensive taste is a reality T.V. staple, and let’s not neglect Below Deck — where luxury meets chaos at sea. The program follows yacht crews as they work nonstop under extreme pressure to satisfy picky and frequently high-maintenance visitors.

Things rarely go as planned on these floating palaces, from managing constantly tense situations among crew members to navigating unpredictable weather. When you combine boat romances, seasickness, and even more unpredictability, you have a reality show that is unlike anything else on television. It’s a crazy trip full of glamour, courage, and constant drama.

But does reality T.V. deserve its bad reputation? Not completely. Yes, it’s not always the most deep and insightful content on the telly, and, occasionally, it may be a bit ridiculous or out of control.

However, reality television provides an opportunity to relax, explore different parts of the world or human nature, and most importantly, disconnect from reality and connect with your favourite castmates. These programs have the power to provoke deep discussions about ambition, loyalty, relationships, and self-worth through the unscripted and surprising lens of entertainment.

There is no reason to feel guilty about watching reality T.V. Although heavily exaggerated, it’s a unique way to tell stories. There is a reality show to suit every taste, whether you want villa romances, high-seas yacht conflicts, or love stories from across the world.

Even though reality television is chaotic and emotional, it’s unquestionably entertaining — and sometimes that’s just what we need.